20 Random Things About Me

1. I have a multifaceted personality, different people bring out different aspects of it. If arnd ten people are asked abt me each one would've something different to say. Some people find me very dull n boring, others say he's very witty n fun to be with; some would describe me as very shy n introvert others as very extrovert; some would call me very mature n understanding, others would say he's plain dumb; some would say he's very loving n caring others would say he takes people for granted. The list of contrasting opinions is endless.

2. The reason for these extreme views is probably cos im very moody, those who have spent a lot of time with me get to see all these aspects of my personality but those who've been therefor a short time are bound to have divergent views.

3. I forgive people very easily, dont keep any grudges in my heart.

4. If Im annoyed with someone, I would avoid that person rather than being rude to him/her.Unless of course that person is a good friend in that case I would let my friend know what exactly pissed me off and that can be very rude. I would just take it out completely so that I can behave normally the next time.But then there are people who are on the borderline, whom you cant call friends but their actions do hurt you. In that case I just avoid that person for sometime because I know if Im hurt n angry then I can be very rude and I dont think that such people matter so much that Iwould tell them that I didnt like something. Ultimately I just forgive such people but dont forget I just keep everything in perspective in my future interactions with such people.

5. I get hurt very easily.

6. Some people call me an 'Emotional Fool'. But I don't mind that.

7. May be they say it cos I can do anything for my Friends n Family, sometimes people even try to take advantage of that but I just completely leave it to their conscience and dont mind being used, I just dont refuse anything to my Friends n Family.

8. I also do help out strangers a lot but in their case Im a lot more pragmatic and and say 'NO' to them if its inconvenient for me.

9. Im a teetotaler, dont smoke too. Never even tried. My friends call me 'PURE ADULT' mockingly

10.The reason why I havent even tried is that I cant get rid of any of my habits easily I know if I try even once I might get addicted.

11. Im very possessive about my friends.

12. I cant see my own blood, I start vomiting if I see myself bleeding.

13. Im constantly thinking about something or the other, my mind keeps working 24x7. This can also lead to some absent mindedness at times.

14. I keep hurting people without even realizing it, I wish I could come to know immediately whenever I've hurt someone so that I can atleast apologize.

15. This reminds me 1 more thing, I never shy away from saying sorry. If I think I've done something inappropriate I apologize asap. Don't have any ego hassles about saying sorry.

16. I love being busy, but that rarely happens..

17. I am never satisfied with myself always wanna do more,I am a big critic of myself sometimes...

18. One think I hate about myself is that I am a procrastinator . Keep postponing things until Ifind myself in a soup. If I have 10 hrs to do something which can be done in 4 hrs, I'll work sincerely for the first 2 hrs then get complacent waste d next 7hrs. Then wid just 1 hrremaining do to d 2 hr work turn into a superhuman n actually finish it in time. I wish I could complete things in time to avoid living on d edge so much.

19. I can never reach any place to attend classes on time always struggling to get ready n reach college. But if I've to meet someone otherwise I am usually on time. But somehow recently I've made people wait a lot.

20. I love to intentionally act dumb sometimes and pull people's leg that ways by asking stupid questions.

21. I sincerely believe that one can change people by kindness. I even think that its d sweetest form of revenge so if I am really angry with someone and wanna set him/her straight then instead of being rude I am sooo bloody nice to such people that first they get confused then they feel ashamed of themselves and ultimately they mend their ways. In my slang first they Noccify me, then I floccify them then they get nihilified and philified themselves. I hope now that d people who used to ask me d meaning of noccifloccinihiliphilificator wouldnt ask again.

lol... I actually managed 21, cant believe it. Well there was lots more coming to mind but I think I've already divulged more than enough. I think the formatting could've been a li'l better though:-(

What I wanted to be...

...and what I have become, makes me want to laugh at myself!

Anyways here's the list: (in no order of priority)

1. Teacher - because I loved ticking everything right and writing 'Very Good - Keep it up' at the end of every page and also, drawing stars for every correct math problem!

2. Cooker (that's what I used to think till recent times) - because I loved making bread rolls and juice!

3. Politician - because I loved those white caps!

4. Ticket seller (any counter) - because I liked the idea of tearing colorful paper into tiny bits and handing it over to an anxious queue.

5. One in the audience at a fashion show (a popular 'job' some of us indulge in).

6. An IITian - I have NO idea why I wanted to be this one!

7. A Super Hero - This is because of the influence of some good old Tamil Movies

8. Doctorate in Chemical sciences at IISc - left the idea, coz I was remembered by being punished in school for breaking my burette.

9. IIM Grad - for my love for logical reasoning

10. Event manager - because I love organizing events

11. Painter - not on canvas but walls... because I badly want to paint my walls maroon and blue...

12. French fries vendor - because everybody loves crispy golden fries. I would be my most loyal customer!

13. Architect - because I just LOVED the idea of drawing plans and calculating and designing and basically the challenge...

14. News anchor - because I liked the crew on every news channel.

15. Represent India at the Olympics - YOU CAN LAUGH!

16. Movie director - ???!!!???

17. Musician - because I love music! :D

18. Racer in a Rally Championship - Cause I was mad about driving cars , with mindblowing speed throwing dust in air.

AND THE LIST GOES ON...

I have no regrets that I was not able to fulfill any of my above aspirations for I believe I have become more learned than yesterday and tomorrow will be another day I can look forward to!

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The most caring heart in my life..

MY MOM
My Mom is the most kind in the world ,the most gentle and so much sweet
loving eyes,kind voice,bright face with a cheerful smile...Thank God what a Treat

My momz there to share when Im sad
My momz there when I am happy n glad

Sometimes I feel bad n think do I really deserve so much care?
But shez always ready to do things for me that no one would dare

I alwayz loved n I luv to see her sweet n kind face
May she live happy n long by God's grace

I know when I was weak n small
She was there to help me move n crawl

I used to wake her up with my hues n cries
Keeping her awake all night till the sunrise

I remember her once coming to school
to bring me sweets n toys so cool

The day came wen I will have to go to the University in the other city
I know she would have beeen sad but for my future she tried not to show me any pity

Now I am big n have the feeling that I can take care of myself
but my mom still loves me as if Im the baby unable survive by myself

These feeling of love n care fill endless joy in my heart
so much happiness sometimes make my heart feel to burst

May God help to do something good for her all the time
Will I be able to return part of her love sometime

All My happiness is her joy..my sadness her grief
Her obsession of life is her child to say it all in brief

All these Words are not enough to praise such grace
each time seeing me she give a smile on her cute face

O God you are so much loving and great
to give me a mom so much caring n affectionate ...

Mom u r the one who really loved me...love datz unconditional,love dat few cud get...
U have alwayz been dere beside me even if I was at wrong a times..
U taught how to share how to Respect,U scolded me when I was wrong u cheered me up wen I was depressed...
U applauded me,even if I had done the silliest job ever.
U r my everything...Ur the only one who really cares,
"LIFE" WITHOUT U IS SOMETHING I CAN NEVER THINK OF"
"I LOVE U A LOT>>I REALLY DO".

Do you Trust?

Trust is a small word, but it's importance in our lives is not small. In fact, in it's various forms, it is the essence of our lives.

First of all, we need to trust ourselves. We need to be sure that when we are put to the test, we will do good. Most of us, I feel, are not very sure of ourselves. We just let things happen, instead of taking charge. Of course, however hard we try, there will be some things that will not be in our control, but we should at least endeavor to do the best that we can.

Trust is the keystone that holds all relationships together. If there is no trust, there is no relationship. What usually happens is that we find it difficult to trust others, but we want others to trust us implicitly. Why should they?

In today's age and time, promises have come to mean nothing. There was a time when a man would give his life - gladly - before he would let his word be broken. Who would not trust such a man? But, today, most people make a hundred and one promises each day, and, out of those, ninety-nine are broken on the very same day. Who would trust a man who does that?

It might be easy to argue that times have changed, and it is not possible to be true and honourable these days. After all one has to lie to save one's job, to make friends, to keep parents happy and so on. Everyone lies in today's time, so why can't we?

Blaming the present times for any, or all, of our faults is the easiest way to get out of a tough situation. I strongly believe that regardless of the times, man's nature has stayed the same over the centuries. Our basic needs and desires - that govern our actions - are still the same. So, why blame the times for our faults, for our inability to take the right decision...for our willingness to lie rather than to bear the consequences of our actions.

So, if you want to be trusted, you have to make sure that you live your life in a way that makes it easy for people to believe you. More than anything else, be a man, or woman, of your words. Don't promise, but if you do, do everything in your power to keep that promise.

The best part of being a trustworthy person is that we will find it easier to trust others, and others will feel more responsible towards us.

So, do you trust others?

Confusing English - A funny forward!!!

I liked this forward which I received yesterday.. Check it out!

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If Fed Ex and UPS were to merge, would they call it Fed UP?
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Do Lipton Tea employees take coffee breaks?
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If olive oil comes from olives, where does baby oil come from?
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If people from Poland are called Poles, why aren't people from Holland called Holes?
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Do infants enjoy infancy as much as adults enjoy adultery?
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Why the man who invests all your money called a broker?
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If horrific means to make horrible, does terrific mean to make terrible?
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Why is it called building when it is already built?
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If a book about failures doesn't sell, is it a success?
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If you're not supposed to drink and drive, then why do bars have parking lots?
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If you take an Oriental person and spin him around several times, does he become disoriented?
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If vegetarians eat vegetables, what do humanitarians eat?? Human???
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If working hours are meant for working, then why are you reading this???
Get Back to WORK!

Worst F1 accident ever in the world!!!

This accident is recorded as the worst F1 accident ever in the world !!!
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Wasn't that horrible ??? :D :D

Just Think If It is the Only Day to Express Your Love?

Valentine's Day..so what?
Well, I guess that's not the answer you'll get when you ask the pub hopping teens and twenty somethings that frequent malls, McDonald's,KFC's,Pizza places and the like ,in most Indian metros these days.I don't see anything special about this 'Day'. The sun will still rise in the East and sink in the West. This just happens to be one of the myriad 'Days' we have aped from the West, like Mother's Day, Father's Day, Rose Day,and the like...I mean, don't we already have loads of Indian festivals to celebrate? Isn't every festival a celebration of love, happiness, wealth and prosperity?
What is the uniqueness of this day? I mean, if you happen to love a person, can't you express it everyday? Why do we need this one day? Why can't we celebrate love on the remaining 364/365 days of a year? Do we really need a 'day' to tell a person how much we love him/her?
So, on Feb.14th every year we see Television filled with 'love'. News channels go around capturing incredible stories of 'love'.Actors, Politicians, sportspeople are caught and brought before the camera, and are forced to answer 'silly questions'. Young people are quizzed about their 'feelings' for their 'loved ones'..
And the most irritating part..if you happen to be in a gift shop on this day..you will literally be covered with 'showers of love'..yeah..it's just me talking about the tons of confetti that's wasted every year..And by the end of the day..you will be sick of the color, Pink.
So, who finally gains on Valentine's Day..no prizes for guessing the answer.
People are made to waste loads of money on stuff like Greeting Cards, silly bunches of red roses, heart-shaped chocolates, pink candy,and all other nonsense in the form of gifts! This is unnerving!
If you happen to be single on Valentine's day, well, God Save You. You are looked down upon, and immediately shunned. You attract looks. You become the 'object of absolute scorn'. You are treated like you are currently infected with AIDS/Herpes/Scabies/Rabies and the like..
I am not asking you to stop loving your special someone, I am just asking you to think if it's really wasting so much time/money/efforts for just the one day...Tell your loved one how much you love her/him whenever you can,show them your feelings, let them know how much you love them throughout your life, let them know that you care.Love is timeless, priceless, don't dedicate just 1 day out of the 365 days in a year to it..Everyday is special, make everyday Valentine's Day!

Why India is a 'Land of Gentlemen'?

A group of desperate bachelors (including myself) were sitting in Our Tea shop . It’s a nice little place which has made its name by selling the finest Tea in our area. I was along with my friends. Meanwhile we talked about certain things and then this topic emerged inadvertently about the Indian men. One friend said that Indian men needs to be more appreciative of the rise of women and one must respect their aspirations which opened the topic for others to chip in. The other one talked about how we must not let them to dictate us which they do in a relationship. The last comment sounded unreasonable and very vague but nobody actually said anything in return to that. Then came the turn of joker of our group who said that Indian men are the most ‘gentlemanly’ in the world with two reasons to prove his point.

First reason being that Cricket is called the gentleman’s game so by the sheer number of cricket aficionados in India, it makes it clear that almost every Indian men is a gentleman.

Second reason is the reluctance of Indian men to say ‘NO’ to women and that is one reason why India is a country of billion people.

We were convinced with our joker’s attempt to entertain us while our tea had arrived.

Nameless..!

Amukkified this tag from one blog which said " Done! My turn to tag...umm... now, since almost everyone's done this tag, I might just end up tagging them again. So yea, if you haven't done this, consider yourself tagged! Have fun! " ..

I hadn't done it .. So thought of doing it ! Here's it ..

1. Pick out a scar you have, and explain how you got it.

More than Physical scars, I have loads of mental scars due to the many failures in ma life so far ! But after meeting a few guys in my college with even worser histories, I felt I was certainly better off. Moving on .. I searched for one and found it - On my cheek ..

*** Flashback ***
I was in my 5th standard in a different house F-20 in Tac Nagar, I was on my way to school. It was a pleasant morning. By the way I was going to my Half-yearly Exam. It was Tamil Paper that day. A junior fellow challenged me for a race till school. It was a prestige thing for me then. So I went on to hit him with the failure of the race. Eventually I was down on the road with blood on my cheeks. Then what I was taken to the hospital. Stitches for the first time in my life. Ah! That is really painful. Then I was allowed to write my Exam for which I was late by more than 30 mins. Anyways I found a good excuse for the low marks in my Tamil paper to my mom.[:D]

2. What does your phone look like?

Mine .. I have Sony Ericsson W700i with a Chennai SIM . It's a postpaid and a corporate card.If you wanna know further details, visit www.sonyericsson.com[:P]!
3. What is on the walls of your bedroom?

As of now nothing .. Though previously there used to be a Michael Schumacher poster, a Madhavan poster, a Hyundai Accent Poster, Asin Poster, Shah Rukh Khan poster etc etc .. But the moment I left my home, Ma mom removed all of them ! Now the walls are really bare [:(]

4. What is your current desktop picture?

Spiderman3 Wallpaper- Tobey McGuire

5. Do you believe in Gay marriage?

That's the wish of the people in consideration .. Why would I bother !

6. What do you want more than anything right now?

The holidays from college to be extended by atleast a week more ( I have had more vacation than all ma school mates .. But still .. )

7.What time were you born?

The time now is 11-00 PM and I woke ma mom up from deep sleep to get this answer ! .. 02- 28 AM Feb 20, 1987 .. Lakshmi Hospital , Ambassamudram , Tirunelveli[:D] ..

8. Are your parents still together?

Yeah .. Of course .. What a stupid question !?

9. Last person who made you cry.

Hmm .. Really long time since I cried .. If my memory serves me right, it was when I got my 10th Board results .. So I guess the people responsible would be my dad and the person who corrected my Social Science paper ..

10. What is your favourite perfume/cologne?

Well .. I love smell of SET WET Zatak .. Now that I have experimented with all those flavours , I am switching onto BRUT...

11. What kind of hair/eye color do you like in the opposite sex?

Black Hair .. Brown eyes .. [:D][:D]

12. What are you listening to?

Latest thing to have caught my attention .. Listening to BGMs from films .. Now listening to the BGM from the Citi Center Scene of ATM .. Splendid work by AR Rahman ..

13. Do you get scared of the dark?

When I was young, yea .. Cos of the "Poochandi" stories .. [:-p] .. These days, not much .. Atleast I dont show my fear outside !

14. Do you like pain killers?

Well .. No question of like n hate here ! .. If I require them , I use them .. Else No ..

15. Are you too shy to ask someone out?

Have n't had the need to .. Only when the need arises I'll know if I am shy or not !

16. If you could eat anything right now, what would it be?

Hmm .. Not that hungry .. But would love a Milk Treat now ! .. [:-p] .. My Favorite chocolate as of now ..

17. Who was the last person who made you mad?

One of my friends who came online on Yahoo! Messenger .. Saw me online .. And then gave invisible to me .. [It was soo soo obvious ] ..

18. Who was the last person who made you smile?

Not any person .. Was going through my Gmail Archives .. It brought a smile on my face ! .. [This is one favourite pasttime of mine]

Missing Love..!!

An..Untold Love!!
(Something to tel on the V'DAY
Though not the right time!!)

You knw...
The moment i saw you,
my heart knew somehow that
A life time wid you is not enough,
The only one my heart found like,
I would give my heart filled with love,

But then,
You knw...
I tried to talk to you but I don't know what to say..
Iam afraid you don't want me to say anything
So I don't...
But inside my hearts ther's some million words waiting to come out
And tell you how I feel-like and how I miss you and how I love you despite my broken heart...
And especially how much I needed you
But those words may forver stay in my heart-locked inside
Sometimes I used to wonder if there are words locked-up inside you too
but I'll never know.

May be
You wud have not knew, i loved you..
No guts to tel you, when you were near me..
You aint near me then, I had guts!!
I wud never get a Chance to tel you that..
And I wud never come in your life again..


But then,
You stay always in my heart.!!

And ofcourse,
I hope as time flew aways,
My love wud slowly abate,
and I wudnt think of You anymore,

Til then,
You'll keep disturbing me!!!!!!!!