The Transformers

"The Life" , goes your way until you adopt to situations adjust to certain things, people and when we enact the proverb of "A Roman in Rome". Just have a thought , you being like what you were as in kinder garten now, being moulded in the care of parents, teachers being unaware of lies, adultery. Wow..!! IF the progression of age and years had stopped there , life would have certainly been a heaven.

Now how much transformations did I or everybody undergo..? We describe them in the scale of achievements, progress, lessons learnt, failures faced and even by the pain of girl friend dumping.

Be it from the first time we stand on our feet trying to walk continuously cheered by the parents.This I mean the first transformation to boyhood where we get introduced the concepts of school, learning , teachers even almost everything under the sky I would say. Then onto the adolescent , the phase which marks the character personally and as well academically.And the final stage I am experiencing as of now ,an adult.This has so much of complications in it, where we make the most vital decisions towards the career, the first love ( I meant to say the true one which sans infatuation or attraction or whatever the term may be ) and ofcourse the stage when we land up in a job that one is passionate about, with some decent gross package to start a career with.


Now what is my point. The transformations in life I meant about lately not only change the persona,they include the changes in character underwent, behavioural changes towards others.Living a life that is mostly influenced by others or a life which is being forseen for the reputation that is to be gained.Be it in the dress we wear till the kind of attitude we depict.....This is always a good thing , taken in the sense of one's own development in his game of life.But did we do all these for the sake of getting better oneself in every way possible or just to prove a point to society that "I am good,capable or whatever to show off.."

My verdict , just ask yourself .."Is there any of mine in me now...or am I living the way I wish exactly I mean the way I want..?"

Ans : A BIG "NO", that most of us will have in their heart , some try not to reveal it.

So much of complications this little pretty life has .Trying had to fit into place that really does not suit...God..!!This mean thing of life trying not to show the real me in me really pisses me off these days.Personal Identity, is on the trail.

I am not sure if I made myself clear about my view .I just spilt off my frustrations about something that was kindling me for quite a while..