Looking Back ...I Realize No Looking Back Anymore..!!

So at the verge of another year ahead , I look back at this year as not just one that passed off. This year has a significant impact on my life or me, I would put it that way.I lost the status of being a student anymore by the mid-year and rest of the year was completely new to me,yeah I am saying about the career with its lifespan of 6 months and going on good.

This span of a year started with me following the family jinx of wearing specs.

January 2nd - Boom start to the year, I landed up in a decent software company with the a good pay packet.My first job will remain close to my heart ever.

These were the days when I was glued to G-Chat for hours, working on the goddamn final year project, roaming around Chennai and straying the college campus since I would not have this student status after a while long.Annual Event of my college cultural, Department's techno-meet, late night walks on the platforms of college and more memories that could not be expressed in words will always linger in my heart.

Finally, the last lecture, the last time class-room sitting arrived.Deep inside my heart I was crying thinking of missing my studenthood,friends, college-a place which taught me maturity , responsibility and much more, it even depicted where I stand in a gang of intellects,geeks,enthusiasts,tech-savvies,jovials for that matter even bloopers.
As everybody do, I too made some good friends ,during the later stage of my college era who stood by during all times be it good or bad.The pranks we played on each other,late night fights with rival gang,midnight chai on the roadside,weekend bash at cineplexes,longing for xerox before the day of the exams,the no-worth chats on the college bund,cricket at the cramped space between the hostels,support for things they lent before I could ask ,even for the crushes on the opposite sex and much more which made a stamp of its own remains buried deep in heart longing for the good old days to get back that would never happen still.

The one last time appearing for a semester-exam.The late night studies,last minute brush ups, the stress, hunt for xerox copies for the next exam, examination hall....GOD!!! I am gonna miss this all..These make me to wish I had a rewind button so as to relive the moments I enjoyed the most and even things that I missed.

This is it..!! Everything finally arrives to an end. 21 Years of student-life reached its destiny.There was I , at the gates of the entrance of my college with my stuffs all packed up and for the one last time I turned back to see the college's main road with half-centenary old renowned department buildings on either sides.The road was like a carpet of yellow flowers that shed from the trees beside.That was like a gesture from it bidding adieu to me.Railway Station, Chennai-Egmore.Bags on the side I was texting messages to friends "Good Bye Guys.Don't forget me.Try to realize me when you see me the next time."

The next thing I remember was sitting on the couch of my living room of my home sweet home.After some long time finger licking food from mom's cuisine.My stomach was heavy so was my heart for a patch of time.Time, made me get used to things in the practical world.I had a very short time before I could get into the shoes of a professional.So I decided to visit my teachers in school and the friends of my batch from the school.So I just started gathering my batch for a dinner one last time for the life-time since everybody will have their own goals running towards them,when they will never have time to think of the school or the friends from it.
Then was the day, I was standing with my bunch of friends in front of the gate of the school.There were so many changes in school since I left.The classes were rearranged,some teachers left the school and even the headmaster was replaced.Finally I met my teachers,greeted them with so much love which I haven't expressed to them before when I was in school.I was very much on my feet because they still recognized me even after a brief gap of 4 years.This was one of the defining moment, I would say.That Night,a dinner was arranged on the sides of the beach on the lawn lighted with soothing candle-like lights.With all of them together, I was reminded of the days when we were in the school,sporting uniforms jumping around with no worries.The other defining moment.For a second I had forgotten that I was missing my friends back in college.The group photo again after the dinner.This time at the casual best without the background of the school.

P.S:I confess that I had a little intention of meeting someone from school in particular,in arranging a get-together.Everything has to come to an end,the night faded away to the next dawn of the day.I was gearing up to kickstart my career in Hyderabad.On the day to leave for it, there were my friends at the railway station from school with wishes for the next big step of me in life.Bidding a bye,with heavy heart I left.

The D-day, JUNE 16 - The first day of my professional career, a bit nervous.I had to pass the Microsoft Building to reach my office.The infrastructure of my office was really stunning.New peers from colleges around India ,a big day for them too.We had a very welcome from the HR personnels.And then there was I in the training room with the Employee ID and my salary account opened.I got to know my peers during the brief period of training.It was a different experience totally.Its been a month since then,I was with some peers renting a flat whom from acquaintances turned to be some good pals.At the close of the training ,we had our first official outing to a resort at the outskirts of the city.A good time-pass and chilling feel after some hardcore training stuff.That's it,time to get onto some real work.I was put up in a team of 8 members.It took time to get along with them.But they were really a bunch of software geeks with some good humor.Now I am totally comfortable working along with them.We gel then on quite well.Our vibes are increasing each day.

My First Salary: That is quite a sum of money.I haven't handled so much of money ever before.I was confused what I would or should do with this, so I just transferred them all to my dad's account.Along with salary of the successive month, I bought loads of goodies for everybody in my family starting from my Dad,Mom,Bro,2 Aunties,grandpa and 2 cousin brothers.Obviously that did cost me quite a lot and at the end of the month I was back at square one asking pocket money from Dad.But spending for them is lot more than anything, after all I don't have anybody else to spend on and it's my first penny earned and that moment would not return back.

Now I am in the status of managing my Income Tax.I feel that is quite a great thing.So this year had made its mark on me.An year with so much emotions involved from heavy hearts to lighter moments.From days where we exchanged slam books to now exchanging Design Documents of projects, this has been a transformation to a different frontier.

Looking Back I come to know,I have come a long way and have still much more than the way I reached now to go.The search is still on for something to achieve or arrive at.I don't believe in destiny.What we do now reflects back in a different means.As of now I am living every moment with josh.I hope to continue this spirit as long as I could, if not atleast to the next year.I have realized that everything is bits and pieces of life.I can feel my maturity level high.All that I am seeking to is a great year ahead that would be another remark in everybody's life.I wish that the ecstasy will still continue towards bliss.

What a thought...!!

We realize the importance of things when they are out of reach or hard to acquire..

Criticize Thyself


"Laugh at your mistakes , before others do", that exactly makes one to feel lighter in case of any embarrassing movements whatever the venue or the situations be.That surely shows the other side of having the "Easy go" nature.Taking things lighter always does not burden up the heart and thoughts.

But there is a thin line differentiating the concept of Self Criticism and Inferiority Complex.Overdose of Self Criticism surely leads to inferior feelings.The general feeling is "Every man is his own master, at least we think so".

I believe in this kind of criticism. will lead to some greater heights in terms of character and attitude which one possesses, if not thriving hard to achieve it.

Sexiest Woman Alive in Asia..!

Katrina Kaif , Damsel Queen ruling the roost in Bollywood for the past one year or so.This long legged beauty is sure a great hindrance in the sleep of most youngsters if not at least to me.What makes her so special. I am still in the process of discovery of it.
I remember her, seeing the first time in the movie "Sarkar" just fitting the bill for her role.Ofcourse that is not her first silver screen appearance but that was when I noticed her where then she had a strong english accent to her hindi.For which she was really criticized hardly and I too adhered it that time.Next was "Partner" where she really impressed me with her Barbie doll looks and the most cutest smile I have ever seen.
Then came the racy movie with Saif where with her glam doll image pushed me to the edge.Then on I was really onto her, grasping every shows she was in and reading to some tinsel town news about hers.Indeed she redefined the word "Bubbly" that was predefined by the pretty "Priety Zinta".
From then on she was on my laptop wallpaper,my bedroom poster and even became the first I read about in fashion or film magazines.
But then I had no idea about her relationship with Sallu Bhai.Still I believed that was all bits and pieces of the stardom to be linked up with someone of the opposite sex, until I watched the Karan Johar's coffee table chat where she was partnering Lara Dutta for that episode.She in no way let down Salman Khan for the questions and pranks played at her in the Karan's way.
Whatever may be , my pulse rises and I get beefed up whenever I see her songs, posters ,interviews and promos for her endorsements.In other words I would say I am in pursuit of an impossible love.

I was not so sure of the saying "A door surely opens before one shuts".Yes, I discovered a look-alike Katrina Kaif just very recently whom I have been eyeing for months.I can feel the thousand butterflies on my stomach on the verge to fly.Is this really a side effect of the love bug..? I am really confused...!!

What a thought..!!

"Old is Gold".Think of it..It must have been new on the start...lol...What a thought..!!

My Life Rating

This Is My Life, Rated
Life:
8.2
Mind:
7.6
Body:
8.1
Spirit:
7.5
Friends/Family:
6
Love:
5
Finance:
8.5
Take the Rate My Life Quiz

Just got to know about this meter when I was gazing through the web-pages.

Try it on yourself and just get to know your ratings on Life.

It feels good if something says that your future would be cool and fantastic.Never mind if the ratings you get is under-rated.

"After all Life has to go on, if at all anything happens.."

Words.........


Sometimes i wish that we had no language, no words. Words cause misunderstandings, they hurt, they cause a lot of pain and many a times they are misunderstood..wish we were all mute and conveyed our feelings just by expressions. Dont know whether the world would have been a better place or not but personal relationships would have been much better. Atleast our parents wouldnt have said that u dont know how to talk to elders and friends n lovers wouldnt have had too many fights..even if they had there wont be those hurtful words said in anger, those misunderstandings or just the whole love n respect for each other vanishing in a split second jus cos of a few words. Jus think of small babies, how they express themselves....isnt that wonderful?? jus think of how many times u hv said something to someone in anger n regretted it later.....I know its jus wishful thinking inspite of all the evils that they bring with them,these words do run our life.. if there werent any words..i would hv been pressing d keys of my keyboard rt. nw n u wuldnt be reading this..if there werent any words there would be no literature..no books..no phones...ya it wuld have been impossibl to live without them;-) no blogging, no bloggers, no orkut....on second thougts..we need words guys;-)..................... Well as the age old saying think before you speak otherwise u migt jus lose the person u cherish the most..............

Sometimes I wish I could.........



'Sometimes I Wish I Could Turn Back Time' this phrase from a Backstreet Boys' song really reflects my state of mind right now.Sometimes I have this strange feeling of going back to the past and enjoying my good old days , rectifying some regrets that would have been solved so easily which was prolonged so long even till now.But people say "Whatever happened was for the good and whatever happening and would happen will always be good".Ofcourse this applies for the most of the cases.But thinking of the rest of the few cases where we might have lost a relationship like a good friend because of some misunderstanding,little quarrels and fights that cost something more than what they deserved(in the opposite way).Now that really hurts when thinking of the past.But they say not to be preoccupied with the past and move forward to patch up with the fast paced world.Most of the times its possible maintain this kind of attitude.But it can be really difficult to think this ways when d stakes are too high, when there's too much to lose, when an otherwise trivial mistake has had a catastrophic effect on your life. In such circumstances its really not possible to be practical.

Life would've been so much simpler if we could just press Ctrl Z and undo things which are not to our liking.........But the fact is that life is not as easy as operating a computer(even that isnt so easy)

The Transformers


"The Life" , goes your way until you adopt to situations adjust to certain things, people and when we enact the proverb of "A Roman in Rome". Just have a thought , you being like what you were as in kinder garten now, being moulded in the care of parents, teachers being unaware of lies, adultery. Wow..!! IF the progression of age and years had stopped there , life would have certainly been a heaven.

Now how much transformations did I or everybody undergo..? We describe them in the scale of achievements, progress, lessons learnt, failures faced and even by the pain of girl friend dumping.

Be it from the first time we stand on our feet trying to walk continuously cheered by the parents.This I mean the first transformation to boyhood where we get introduced the concepts of school, learning , teachers even almost everything under the sky I would say. Then onto the adolescent , the phase which marks the character personally and as well academically.And the final stage I am experiencing as of now ,an adult.This has so much of complications in it, where we make the most vital decisions towards the career, the first love ( I meant to say the true one which sans infatuation or attraction or whatever the term may be ) and ofcourse the stage when we land up in a job that one is passionate about, with some decent gross package to start a career with.


Now what is my point. The transformations in life I meant about lately not only change the persona,they include the changes in character underwent, behavioural changes towards others.Living a life that is mostly influenced by others or a life which is being forseen for the reputation that is to be gained.Be it in the dress we wear till the kind of attitude we depict.....This is always a good thing , taken in the sense of one's own development in his game of life.But did we do all these for the sake of getting better oneself in every way possible or just to prove a point to society that "I am good,capable or whatever to show off.."

My verdict , just ask yourself .."Is there any of mine in me now...or am I living the way I wish exactly I mean the way I want..?"

Ans : A BIG "NO", that most of us will have in their heart , some try not to reveal it.

So much of complications this little pretty life has .Trying had to fit into place that really does not suit...God..!!This mean thing of life trying not to show the real me in me really pisses me off these days.Personal Identity, is on the trail.

I am not sure if I made myself clear about my view .I just spilt off my frustrations about something that was kindling me for quite a while..

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Have you? If yes, then there's nothing unusual about you :D ... If No, WHAT!!?? Please tell me how??

Is it possible for someone to never fall in love with another person till they are wedded (considering wedding is the very act of connecting two lovers or prospective lovers)? I'm guessing it was quite possible in my gandpa's time (only guessing) but now, there's nobody in sight who has never fallen in love! Is it a good sign? I don't know... it's so weird. yeah, of course there's nothing wrong...

When I was very young, an 'affair' was a very bad word and whoever I knew never had one... so I thought. But now, being in an affair is like getting a monthly hair-cut. The new style looks good at first but then it's hair and it does grow and you come back to square one. Are you following this? err... whatever!

Divorce, extra-marital affairs, no strings attached, two-timing, ... I don't quite understand where I'm taking this to, but if you can really follow, you'll know it's all coming to one question - what exactly is love? - a feeling? a perception? remedy? a commitment? WHAT IS IT?

I'm confused now... because I wanted to convey something else but I ended up writing something else, and I don't want to discard this because I wrote whatever my mind dictated...

Bleh! Right, if you have never fallen in love with anybody till date , please contact me and I want to take your interview

Serious...

Touching thought...

There's one sad truth in life I've found
While journeying east and west
The only folks we really wound
Are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know
We please the fleeting guest
And deal full many a thoughtless blow
To those who love us best.

20 Random Things About Me




1. I have a multifaceted personality, different people bring out different aspects of it. If arnd ten people are asked abt me each one would've something different to say. Some people find me very dull n boring, others say he's very witty n fun to be with; some would describe me as very shy n introvert others as very extrovert; some would call me very mature n understanding, others would say he's plain dumb; some would say he's very loving n caring others would say he takes people for granted. The list of contrasting opinions is endless.

2. The reason for these extreme views is probably cos im very moody, those who have spent a lot of time with me get to see all these aspects of my personality but those who've been therefor a short time are bound to have divergent views.

3. I forgive people very easily, dont keep any grudges in my heart.

4. If Im annoyed with someone, I would avoid that person rather than being rude to him/her.Unless of course that person is a good friend in that case I would let my friend know what exactly pissed me off and that can be very rude. I would just take it out completely so that I can behave normally the next time.But then there are people who are on the borderline, whom you cant call friends but their actions do hurt you. In that case I just avoid that person for sometime because I know if Im hurt n angry then I can be very rude and I dont think that such people matter so much that Iwould tell them that I didnt like something. Ultimately I just forgive such people but dont forget I just keep everything in perspective in my future interactions with such people.

5. I get hurt very easily.

6. Some people call me an 'Emotional Fool'. But I don't mind that.

7. May be they say it cos I can do anything for my Friends n Family, sometimes people even try to take advantage of that but I just completely leave it to their conscience and dont mind being used, I just dont refuse anything to my Friends n Family.

8. I also do help out strangers a lot but in their case Im a lot more pragmatic and and say 'NO' to them if its inconvenient for me.

9. Im a teetotaler, dont smoke too. Never even tried. My friends call me 'PURE ADULT' mockingly

10.The reason why I havent even tried is that I cant get rid of any of my habits easily I know if I try even once I might get addicted.

11. Im very possessive about my friends.

12. I cant see my own blood, I start vomiting if I see myself bleeding.

13. Im constantly thinking about something or the other, my mind keeps working 24x7. This can also lead to some absent mindedness at times.

14. I keep hurting people without even realizing it, I wish I could come to know immediately whenever I've hurt someone so that I can atleast apologize.

15. This reminds me 1 more thing, I never shy away from saying sorry. If I think I've done something inappropriate I apologize asap. Don't have any ego hassles about saying sorry.

16. I love being busy, but that rarely happens..

17. I am never satisfied with myself always wanna do more,I am a big critic of myself sometimes...

18. One think I hate about myself is that I am a procrastinator . Keep postponing things until Ifind myself in a soup. If I have 10 hrs to do something which can be done in 4 hrs, I'll work sincerely for the first 2 hrs then get complacent waste d next 7hrs. Then wid just 1 hrremaining do to d 2 hr work turn into a superhuman n actually finish it in time. I wish I could complete things in time to avoid living on d edge so much.

19. I can never reach any place to attend classes on time always struggling to get ready n reach college. But if I've to meet someone otherwise I am usually on time. But somehow recently I've made people wait a lot.

20. I love to intentionally act dumb sometimes and pull people's leg that ways by asking stupid questions.

21. I sincerely believe that one can change people by kindness. I even think that its d sweetest form of revenge so if I am really angry with someone and wanna set him/her straight then instead of being rude I am sooo bloody nice to such people that first they get confused then they feel ashamed of themselves and ultimately they mend their ways. In my slang first they Noccify me, then I floccify them then they get nihilified and philified themselves. I hope now that d people who used to ask me d meaning of noccifloccinihiliphilificator wouldnt ask again.

lol... I actually managed 21, cant believe it. Well there was lots more coming to mind but I think I've already divulged more than enough. I think the formatting could've been a li'l better though:-(

What I wanted to be...




...and what I have become, makes me want to laugh at myself!

Anyways here's the list: (in no order of priority)

1. Teacher - because I loved ticking everything right and writing 'Very Good - Keep it up' at the end of every page and also, drawing stars for every correct math problem!

2. Cooker (that's what I used to think till recent times) - because I loved making bread rolls and juice!

3. Politician - because I loved those white caps!

4. Ticket seller (any counter) - because I liked the idea of tearing colorful paper into tiny bits and handing it over to an anxious queue.

5. One in the audience at a fashion show (a popular 'job' some of us indulge in).

6. An IITian - I have NO idea why I wanted to be this one!

7. A Super Hero - This is because of the influence of some good old Tamil Movies

8. Doctorate in Chemical sciences at IISc - left the idea, coz I was remembered by being punished in school for breaking my burette.

9. IIM Grad - for my love for logical reasoning

10. Event manager - because I love organizing events

11. Painter - not on canvas but walls... because I badly want to paint my walls maroon and blue...

12. French fries vendor - because everybody loves crispy golden fries. I would be my most loyal customer!

13. Architect - because I just LOVED the idea of drawing plans and calculating and designing and basically the challenge...

14. News anchor - because I liked the crew on every news channel.

15. Represent India at the Olympics - YOU CAN LAUGH!

16. Movie director - ???!!!???

17. Musician - because I love music! :D

18. Racer in a Rally Championship - Cause I was mad about driving cars , with mindblowing speed throwing dust in air.

AND THE LIST GOES ON...

I have no regrets that I was not able to fulfill any of my above aspirations for I believe I have become more learned than yesterday and tomorrow will be another day I can look forward to!

:)

The most caring heart in my life..


MY MOM
My Mom is the most kind in the world ,the most gentle and so much sweet
loving eyes,kind voice,bright face with a cheerful smile...Thank God what a Treat

My momz there to share when Im sad
My momz there when I am happy n glad

Sometimes I feel bad n think do I really deserve so much care?
But shez always ready to do things for me that no one would dare

I alwayz loved n I luv to see her sweet n kind face
May she live happy n long by God's grace

I know when I was weak n small
She was there to help me move n crawl

I used to wake her up with my hues n cries
Keeping her awake all night till the sunrise

I remember her once coming to school
to bring me sweets n toys so cool

The day came wen I will have to go to the University in the other city
I know she would have beeen sad but for my future she tried not to show me any pity

Now I am big n have the feeling that I can take care of myself
but my mom still loves me as if Im the baby unable survive by myself

These feeling of love n care fill endless joy in my heart
so much happiness sometimes make my heart feel to burst

May God help to do something good for her all the time
Will I be able to return part of her love sometime

All My happiness is her joy..my sadness her grief
Her obsession of life is her child to say it all in brief

All these Words are not enough to praise such grace
each time seeing me she give a smile on her cute face

O God you are so much loving and great
to give me a mom so much caring n affectionate ...

Mom u r the one who really loved me...love datz unconditional,love dat few cud get...
U have alwayz been dere beside me even if I was at wrong a times..
U taught how to share how to Respect,U scolded me when I was wrong u cheered me up wen I was depressed...
U applauded me,even if I had done the silliest job ever.
U r my everything...Ur the only one who really cares,
"LIFE" WITHOUT U IS SOMETHING I CAN NEVER THINK OF"
"I LOVE U A LOT>>I REALLY DO".

Do you Trust?

Trust is a small word, but it's importance in our lives is not small. In fact, in it's various forms, it is the essence of our lives.

First of all, we need to trust ourselves. We need to be sure that when we are put to the test, we will do good. Most of us, I feel, are not very sure of ourselves. We just let things happen, instead of taking charge. Of course, however hard we try, there will be some things that will not be in our control, but we should at least endeavor to do the best that we can.

Trust is the keystone that holds all relationships together. If there is no trust, there is no relationship. What usually happens is that we find it difficult to trust others, but we want others to trust us implicitly. Why should they?

In today's age and time, promises have come to mean nothing. There was a time when a man would give his life - gladly - before he would let his word be broken. Who would not trust such a man? But, today, most people make a hundred and one promises each day, and, out of those, ninety-nine are broken on the very same day. Who would trust a man who does that?

It might be easy to argue that times have changed, and it is not possible to be true and honourable these days. After all one has to lie to save one's job, to make friends, to keep parents happy and so on. Everyone lies in today's time, so why can't we?

Blaming the present times for any, or all, of our faults is the easiest way to get out of a tough situation. I strongly believe that regardless of the times, man's nature has stayed the same over the centuries. Our basic needs and desires - that govern our actions - are still the same. So, why blame the times for our faults, for our inability to take the right decision...for our willingness to lie rather than to bear the consequences of our actions.

So, if you want to be trusted, you have to make sure that you live your life in a way that makes it easy for people to believe you. More than anything else, be a man, or woman, of your words. Don't promise, but if you do, do everything in your power to keep that promise.

The best part of being a trustworthy person is that we will find it easier to trust others, and others will feel more responsible towards us.

So, do you trust others?

Confusing English - A funny forward!!!

I liked this forward which I received yesterday.. Check it out!

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If Fed Ex and UPS were to merge, would they call it Fed UP?
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Do Lipton Tea employees take coffee breaks?
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If olive oil comes from olives, where does baby oil come from?
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If people from Poland are called Poles, why aren't people from Holland called Holes?
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Do infants enjoy infancy as much as adults enjoy adultery?
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Why the man who invests all your money called a broker?
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If horrific means to make horrible, does terrific mean to make terrible?
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Why is it called building when it is already built?
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If a book about failures doesn't sell, is it a success?
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If you're not supposed to drink and drive, then why do bars have parking lots?
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If you take an Oriental person and spin him around several times, does he become disoriented?
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If vegetarians eat vegetables, what do humanitarians eat?? Human???
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If working hours are meant for working, then why are you reading this???
Get Back to WORK!

Worst F1 accident ever in the world!!!

This accident is recorded as the worst F1 accident ever in the world !!!
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Just Think If It is the Only Day to Express Your Love?

Valentine's Day..so what?
Well, I guess that's not the answer you'll get when you ask the pub hopping teens and twenty somethings that frequent malls, McDonald's,KFC's,Pizza places and the like ,in most Indian metros these days.I don't see anything special about this 'Day'. The sun will still rise in the East and sink in the West. This just happens to be one of the myriad 'Days' we have aped from the West, like Mother's Day, Father's Day, Rose Day,and the like...I mean, don't we already have loads of Indian festivals to celebrate? Isn't every festival a celebration of love, happiness, wealth and prosperity?
What is the uniqueness of this day? I mean, if you happen to love a person, can't you express it everyday? Why do we need this one day? Why can't we celebrate love on the remaining 364/365 days of a year? Do we really need a 'day' to tell a person how much we love him/her?
So, on Feb.14th every year we see Television filled with 'love'. News channels go around capturing incredible stories of 'love'.Actors, Politicians, sportspeople are caught and brought before the camera, and are forced to answer 'silly questions'. Young people are quizzed about their 'feelings' for their 'loved ones'..
And the most irritating part..if you happen to be in a gift shop on this day..you will literally be covered with 'showers of love'..yeah..it's just me talking about the tons of confetti that's wasted every year..And by the end of the day..you will be sick of the color, Pink.
So, who finally gains on Valentine's Day..no prizes for guessing the answer.
People are made to waste loads of money on stuff like Greeting Cards, silly bunches of red roses, heart-shaped chocolates, pink candy,and all other nonsense in the form of gifts! This is unnerving!
If you happen to be single on Valentine's day, well, God Save You. You are looked down upon, and immediately shunned. You attract looks. You become the 'object of absolute scorn'. You are treated like you are currently infected with AIDS/Herpes/Scabies/Rabies and the like..
I am not asking you to stop loving your special someone, I am just asking you to think if it's really wasting so much time/money/efforts for just the one day...Tell your loved one how much you love her/him whenever you can,show them your feelings, let them know how much you love them throughout your life, let them know that you care.Love is timeless, priceless, don't dedicate just 1 day out of the 365 days in a year to it..Everyday is special, make everyday Valentine's Day!

Why India is a 'Land of Gentlemen'?

A group of desperate bachelors (including myself) were sitting in Our Tea shop . It’s a nice little place which has made its name by selling the finest Tea in our area. I was along with my friends. Meanwhile we talked about certain things and then this topic emerged inadvertently about the Indian men. One friend said that Indian men needs to be more appreciative of the rise of women and one must respect their aspirations which opened the topic for others to chip in. The other one talked about how we must not let them to dictate us which they do in a relationship. The last comment sounded unreasonable and very vague but nobody actually said anything in return to that. Then came the turn of joker of our group who said that Indian men are the most ‘gentlemanly’ in the world with two reasons to prove his point.

First reason being that Cricket is called the gentleman’s game so by the sheer number of cricket aficionados in India, it makes it clear that almost every Indian men is a gentleman.

Second reason is the reluctance of Indian men to say ‘NO’ to women and that is one reason why India is a country of billion people.

We were convinced with our joker’s attempt to entertain us while our tea had arrived.

Nameless..!

Amukkified this tag from one blog which said " Done! My turn to tag...umm... now, since almost everyone's done this tag, I might just end up tagging them again. So yea, if you haven't done this, consider yourself tagged! Have fun! " ..

I hadn't done it .. So thought of doing it ! Here's it ..

1. Pick out a scar you have, and explain how you got it.

More than Physical scars, I have loads of mental scars due to the many failures in ma life so far ! But after meeting a few guys in my college with even worser histories, I felt I was certainly better off. Moving on .. I searched for one and found it - On my cheek ..

*** Flashback ***
I was in my 5th standard in a different house F-20 in Tac Nagar, I was on my way to school. It was a pleasant morning. By the way I was going to my Half-yearly Exam. It was Tamil Paper that day. A junior fellow challenged me for a race till school. It was a prestige thing for me then. So I went on to hit him with the failure of the race. Eventually I was down on the road with blood on my cheeks. Then what I was taken to the hospital. Stitches for the first time in my life. Ah! That is really painful. Then I was allowed to write my Exam for which I was late by more than 30 mins. Anyways I found a good excuse for the low marks in my Tamil paper to my mom.[:D]

2. What does your phone look like?

Mine .. I have Sony Ericsson W700i with a Chennai SIM . It's a postpaid and a corporate card.If you wanna know further details, visit www.sonyericsson.com[:P]!
3. What is on the walls of your bedroom?

As of now nothing .. Though previously there used to be a Michael Schumacher poster, a Madhavan poster, a Hyundai Accent Poster, Asin Poster, Shah Rukh Khan poster etc etc .. But the moment I left my home, Ma mom removed all of them ! Now the walls are really bare [:(]

4. What is your current desktop picture?

Spiderman3 Wallpaper- Tobey McGuire






















5. Do you believe in Gay marriage?


That's the wish of the people in consideration .. Why would I bother !

6. What do you want more than anything right now?

The holidays from college to be extended by atleast a week more ( I have had more vacation than all ma school mates .. But still .. )

7.What time were you born?

The time now is 11-00 PM and I woke ma mom up from deep sleep to get this answer ! .. 02- 28 AM Feb 20, 1987 .. Lakshmi Hospital , Ambassamudram , Tirunelveli[:D] ..

8. Are your parents still together?

Yeah .. Of course .. What a stupid question !?

9. Last person who made you cry.

Hmm .. Really long time since I cried .. If my memory serves me right, it was when I got my 10th Board results .. So I guess the people responsible would be my dad and the person who corrected my Social Science paper ..

10. What is your favourite perfume/cologne?

Well .. I love smell of SET WET Zatak .. Now that I have experimented with all those flavours , I am switching onto BRUT...

11. What kind of hair/eye color do you like in the opposite sex?

Black Hair .. Brown eyes .. [:D][:D]

12. What are you listening to?

Latest thing to have caught my attention .. Listening to BGMs from films .. Now listening to the BGM from the Citi Center Scene of ATM .. Splendid work by AR Rahman ..

13. Do you get scared of the dark?

When I was young, yea .. Cos of the "Poochandi" stories .. [:-p] .. These days, not much .. Atleast I dont show my fear outside !

14. Do you like pain killers?

Well .. No question of like n hate here ! .. If I require them , I use them .. Else No ..

15. Are you too shy to ask someone out?

Have n't had the need to .. Only when the need arises I'll know if I am shy or not !

16. If you could eat anything right now, what would it be?

Hmm .. Not that hungry .. But would love a Milk Treat now ! .. [:-p] .. My Favorite chocolate as of now ..

17. Who was the last person who made you mad?

One of my friends who came online on Yahoo! Messenger .. Saw me online .. And then gave invisible to me .. [It was soo soo obvious ] ..

18. Who was the last person who made you smile?

Not any person .. Was going through my Gmail Archives .. It brought a smile on my face ! .. [This is one favourite pasttime of mine]

Missing Love..!!


An..Untold Love!!
(Something to tel on the V'DAY
Though not the right time!!)


You knw...
The moment i saw you,
my heart knew somehow that
A life time wid you is not enough,
The only one my heart found like,
I would give my heart filled with love,

But then,
You knw...
I tried to talk to you but I don't know what to say..
Iam afraid you don't want me to say anything
So I don't...
But inside my hearts ther's some million words waiting to come out
And tell you how I feel-like and how I miss you and how I love you despite my broken heart...
And especially how much I needed you
But those words may forver stay in my heart-locked inside
Sometimes I used to wonder if there are words locked-up inside you too
but I'll never know.

May be
You wud have not knew, i loved you..
No guts to tel you, when you were near me..
You aint near me then, I had guts!!
I wud never get a Chance to tel you that..
And I wud never come in your life again..


But then,
You stay always in my heart.!!

And ofcourse,
I hope as time flew aways,
My love wud slowly abate,
and I wudnt think of You anymore,

Til then,
You'll keep disturbing me!!!!!!!!

Questions of Faith

What is life? Why do we exist? Does God exist?

For me, God does exist as He is the force that created everything. A supernatural phenomenon if you will. SUPER-natural because we don’t know what this force is or where it came from. It has just been there from the beginning of time.

So God created the universe and everything in it. He started life and it has evolved ever since. Was this evolution automatic or was God guiding it? Is He still managing the entire universe? Has he decided our destinies and is working in such a way so that we reach it? Or did he just create everything and leave it at that?......I really don’t know. I’m as confused as anyone else.

God is supposed to be the representation of all the good stuff in the world. He can’t possibly do anything wrong. So, if God is in total control the world should be a much better place right now, shouldn’t it? Or is He just maintaining ‘the balance’ as well? If we think of ourselves as puppets attached to the strings He holds, does that mean He makes us do bad things as well?.....Or did He just create everything and set up a balance which maintains everything on its own? Does that mean the world will remain in the same state forever so that the balance prevails?

The answers to all these questions depend on your faith. Does that mean I’m just not sure about mine?