Words.........

Sometimes i wish that we had no language, no words. Words cause misunderstandings, they hurt, they cause a lot of pain and many a times they are misunderstood..wish we were all mute and conveyed our feelings just by expressions. Dont know whether the world would have been a better place or not but personal relationships would have been much better. Atleast our parents wouldnt have said that u dont know how to talk to elders and friends n lovers wouldnt have had too many fights..even if they had there wont be those hurtful words said in anger, those misunderstandings or just the whole love n respect for each other vanishing in a split second jus cos of a few words. Jus think of small babies, how they express themselves....isnt that wonderful?? jus think of how many times u hv said something to someone in anger n regretted it later.....I know its jus wishful thinking inspite of all the evils that they bring with them,these words do run our life.. if there werent any words..i would hv been pressing d keys of my keyboard rt. nw n u wuldnt be reading this..if there werent any words there would be no literature..no books..no phones...ya it wuld have been impossibl to live without them;-) no blogging, no bloggers, no orkut....on second thougts..we need words guys;-)..................... Well as the age old saying think before you speak otherwise u migt jus lose the person u cherish the most..............

Sometimes I wish I could.........

'Sometimes I Wish I Could Turn Back Time' this phrase from a Backstreet Boys' song really reflects my state of mind right now.Sometimes I have this strange feeling of going back to the past and enjoying my good old days , rectifying some regrets that would have been solved so easily which was prolonged so long even till now.But people say "Whatever happened was for the good and whatever happening and would happen will always be good".Ofcourse this applies for the most of the cases.But thinking of the rest of the few cases where we might have lost a relationship like a good friend because of some misunderstanding,little quarrels and fights that cost something more than what they deserved(in the opposite way).Now that really hurts when thinking of the past.But they say not to be preoccupied with the past and move forward to patch up with the fast paced world.Most of the times its possible maintain this kind of attitude.But it can be really difficult to think this ways when d stakes are too high, when there's too much to lose, when an otherwise trivial mistake has had a catastrophic effect on your life. In such circumstances its really not possible to be practical.

Life would've been so much simpler if we could just press Ctrl Z and undo things which are not to our liking.........But the fact is that life is not as easy as operating a computer(even that isnt so easy)

The Transformers

"The Life" , goes your way until you adopt to situations adjust to certain things, people and when we enact the proverb of "A Roman in Rome". Just have a thought , you being like what you were as in kinder garten now, being moulded in the care of parents, teachers being unaware of lies, adultery. Wow..!! IF the progression of age and years had stopped there , life would have certainly been a heaven.

Now how much transformations did I or everybody undergo..? We describe them in the scale of achievements, progress, lessons learnt, failures faced and even by the pain of girl friend dumping.

Be it from the first time we stand on our feet trying to walk continuously cheered by the parents.This I mean the first transformation to boyhood where we get introduced the concepts of school, learning , teachers even almost everything under the sky I would say. Then onto the adolescent , the phase which marks the character personally and as well academically.And the final stage I am experiencing as of now ,an adult.This has so much of complications in it, where we make the most vital decisions towards the career, the first love ( I meant to say the true one which sans infatuation or attraction or whatever the term may be ) and ofcourse the stage when we land up in a job that one is passionate about, with some decent gross package to start a career with.


Now what is my point. The transformations in life I meant about lately not only change the persona,they include the changes in character underwent, behavioural changes towards others.Living a life that is mostly influenced by others or a life which is being forseen for the reputation that is to be gained.Be it in the dress we wear till the kind of attitude we depict.....This is always a good thing , taken in the sense of one's own development in his game of life.But did we do all these for the sake of getting better oneself in every way possible or just to prove a point to society that "I am good,capable or whatever to show off.."

My verdict , just ask yourself .."Is there any of mine in me now...or am I living the way I wish exactly I mean the way I want..?"

Ans : A BIG "NO", that most of us will have in their heart , some try not to reveal it.

So much of complications this little pretty life has .Trying had to fit into place that really does not suit...God..!!This mean thing of life trying not to show the real me in me really pisses me off these days.Personal Identity, is on the trail.

I am not sure if I made myself clear about my view .I just spilt off my frustrations about something that was kindling me for quite a while..

Have you fallen in love?

Have you? If yes, then there's nothing unusual about you :D ... If No, WHAT!!?? Please tell me how??

Is it possible for someone to never fall in love with another person till they are wedded (considering wedding is the very act of connecting two lovers or prospective lovers)? I'm guessing it was quite possible in my gandpa's time (only guessing) but now, there's nobody in sight who has never fallen in love! Is it a good sign? I don't know... it's so weird. yeah, of course there's nothing wrong...

When I was very young, an 'affair' was a very bad word and whoever I knew never had one... so I thought. But now, being in an affair is like getting a monthly hair-cut. The new style looks good at first but then it's hair and it does grow and you come back to square one. Are you following this? err... whatever!

Divorce, extra-marital affairs, no strings attached, two-timing, ... I don't quite understand where I'm taking this to, but if you can really follow, you'll know it's all coming to one question - what exactly is love? - a feeling? a perception? remedy? a commitment? WHAT IS IT?

I'm confused now... because I wanted to convey something else but I ended up writing something else, and I don't want to discard this because I wrote whatever my mind dictated...

Bleh! Right, if you have never fallen in love with anybody till date , please contact me and I want to take your interview

Serious...

Touching thought...

There's one sad truth in life I've found
While journeying east and west
The only folks we really wound
Are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know
We please the fleeting guest
And deal full many a thoughtless blow
To those who love us best.